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IMDB rating: 5.70 Plot: Harrison Ford and Brad Pitt star in this thriller about an IRA gunman who draws an American family into the corssfire of terrorism. Frankie McGuire (Pitt) is one of the IRA’s deadliest assassins. But when he is sent to the U.S. to buy weapons, Frankie is housed with the family of Tom O’Meara (Ford), a New York cop who knows nothing about Frankie’s real identity. Their surprising friendship, and Tom’s growing suspicions, force Frankie to choose between the promise of peace of a lifetime of murder. |
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Actors: Pitt Brad,Williams Treat,McElhone Natascha,Jones Simon,Atherton William,Colin Margaret,Blades Ruben,Mitchell Ryan,Stiles Julia,Paul Ronan,Ashley Carin,Kelly Singer,George Hearn,David Wilmot,Action,Drama,Thriller,
My parents never praised me, is that why i have low self esteem?
My mom took care of me when i was an infant, but ever since i can remember she never told me she was proud of me, or asked how my day was or my feelings….. we moved to canada when i was 9 and i was miserable but we never talked about it, my mom and dad had their own life to worry about so to speak, making ends meet and adult friends….. But i would cry every night as a kid.
And now all of a sudden when i am 20 my mom is trying to be a mom and gets angry at me for being such an "unbelievable child".. when she never even knew me, or seems to me bothered to know me. I was never close to my dad… we never hugged or kissed or talked.. im a middle child so i was quickly outgrown by my little brother.. in terms of attention. My mom always had it in her head that i was a devil child and just going through those crazy hormonal teenage years yet thats when i needed her most! She thought i was like other teenagers and called her a "bit*h" behind her back when i would never even dream of such a thing. She never understood me. The only thing she ever taught me as a child was "dont do this, its not polite" "dont do that what will people think"
She herself was always confident in her looks and is talkative and etc… and im the opposite. Im polite and i sometimes hold back my own opinion just to "be nice". I really want to change and grow personally and be my own person. I was lacking love and attention maybe thats why im not.
man up
Alex L | Nov 17, 2009
Ditto for me. Parents didn’t when I was young. I’m sorry you had such a difficult mother who never bothered to find out what was actually going on.
It’s a new concept to praise children. I got a little bit at school but only because I did well in order to please my parents.
I too was very polite and would always agree with an adult even if I thought they were talking rubbish or didn’t understand what they were going on about. However my mother had contempt for me for being like this. If I did stand up to my father for being unreasonable she told me that I was aggravating him. It’s like damned if you do and damned if you don’t.
However I do believe that children don’t get the balance of criticism with the praise. Self esteem seems to be more important than self discipline these days and there’s a fine line between self esteem and arrogance that is often crossed by both adults and children.
Teresa L | Nov 17, 2009
don’t worry you are growing up, soon you will be able to live your own life!
funco | Nov 17, 2009
Your grown up now a lot of kids have bad child hoods. So let the past be the past and just try to make the future better. You could have low self esteem but if you feel that way nobody can make you feel better unless you make yourself feel good
Stiles B | Nov 17, 2009
heres the thing
you can only blame your parents for so long. Not that it is wrong to feel that something may have been done better.
So if you want high self esteem start building it. Compliment your self for what you do well. Talk to yourself in the mirror and tell yourself how cool you are. It feels stupid at first but eventually you get used to saying nice things to yourself instead of constantly pulling yourself down. Good Luck!
Andrea | Nov 17, 2009
you have been through a lot and it is true that how you have been raised has a big Impact on your day to day life and your self esteem; however, you can change it if you want to. it might be hard but just think that The past is history, the future
Ken Guthrie
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