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 Hiding Out (1987)
IMDB rating: 5.90
Plot: A very succesful stock broker is called to court to testify against a mob boss who was into some inside trading. They hide him because of death threats. He gets caught in a gun battle and has to flee. He ends up hiding out as a student in a high school. He has to adjust to how things have changed as a teenager. The bad guys find him and he has fight it out in the high school gym.
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Directors: Giraldi Bob
Actors: Cryer Jon,Cryer Jon,Coogan Keith,Cotton Oliver,Brooks Claude,Quill Tim,Soper Tony,Eisenberg Ned,Small Steven,Walker Johnny,Spencer John,Comedy,Drama,Romance,Thriller,
Does anyone go through this while TTC?
This might be a stupid question, I don’t know.. I’ve been TTC with my Husband for awhile. We’re still not pregnant yet, and we cannot wait to have children. We’ve been married 3 years already. (which isn’t too long, but not too little either.) I’ve always wanted to become a mommy, and my Husband adores children. But we’re also scared/nervous/afraid? Because we know we won’t have our ‘alone with each other’ time like we used to. It’s just a huge step. Is it OK to miss that? Is it OK to miss your quiet nights and good-nights sleeps? lol. Is it OK to miss just being a couple? Is it also OK to worry about how your children and pets will get along? I adore my cats and I’m so worried that they’ll go insane and hate me and go into hiding forever, lol. There’s no doubt that I still want a baby, I’m not a selfish person I’m willing to give up whatever I have to, but I just want to know if anyone else feels this way too. Is this all normal? lol. Sorry I’m just wondering. Any comforting thoughts or stories?
Thanks.
When I found out I was pregnant all of those thoughts and questions came flooding into my mind. As well as the alone time with my partner I also had cats and was nervous for them too because I knew I wouldn’t be giving them as much attention and I was sad for that reason.
A week before I gave birth I was crying and crying because I realised it wasn’t going to be just my partner and I anymore, I was TTC for 2 years so it was very happy I was pregnant but I just realised that we just wont be able to do much together just us anymore.
Anyway of course it is ok to miss just being a couple!! & I think it is really important that when you have a baby you try and do stuff just together because I know sometimes my partner and I don’t and it can be sad at times but we are very happy overall and we do do stuff still & it is fun. It’s ok to worry about everything you are worrying about…
On another note, sleepless nights don’t happen to everyone ( I was extremely lucky & you could be too) & when you are waking up and seeing your baby it doesnt seem that bad anyway.
My daughter and my cats are best friends, yes she torments their lives at times but ever since she came home they have acted like a second and third mother, they love her & have from the beginning. I was extremely nervous about my baby having a cat allergy or something :/ but everything was fine
Don’t feel like you have to give up anything having a baby, sure spontaneity goes out the window somewhat but you will have a beautiful baby and love that. You will be able to organise times with your partner and do things together & it’s when you feel like you can’t do things when life becomes overwhelming.
All your thoughts are normal, you sound like you over think a little like me, once the baby comes all the anxiety will hopefully just fly out the window & you, your partner & your cats will hopefully have a great life altogether!
Good luck with everything! It will be fine, all is well here with me & I had all those thoughts & now my life is even better than it was before.
wooden ducks <3 | Feb 04, 2010
This isn’t a stupid question at all.
It is perfectly normal to be worried about the unknown! It is true that the first 6 months wil be trying on your relationship and sleeping habits, but as every mother will tell you, you will adapt and so will your DH and cats
Things will change but completely 100% worth it!
You will still be able to have you quiet nights, and hopefully good nights sleep (not straight away of course!). You wont get as much alone time, but you will definitely appreciate the time you get!
Im sure your cats wont mind a new addition too much (until you little tacker can pull tails anyway).
Just be super care full of cats around babies as they enjoy sleeping on babies heads!
Things will change and it will be trying at times but overall its unbelievable.
My partner and i were also so worried when we had my daughter,she was born almost 3 months early and my DD and I were in hospital for 2.5 months after she was born.So life was definitely hard then.And when we got her home she needed 2 hourly feeds, we were worried things would never settle down! It was hard on each of us but never let it affect us as a couple. Sure enough it got easier. Now there is more fun stuff than bottles and midnight feeds. My DD does everything with us and i cant imagine life without her. We go for "dates" or luxury weekends, and plan to go alone, but never do. We rather spend time as a family then have our time. And in a way family time and our time are the same thing!
My DH and I have been trying for No.2 for 3 years and i feel like im in the same boat even with previous experience. I worry another addition could wreck the good things we have going now.But im sure id answer myself the same way i have to you after No.2!
One piece of advice… No matter how exhausted you are to begin with its not permanent! Also even if you are tired (and you will be) make time for yourself, and make time for each other.
I hope i’m some help.
Good luck and baby dust!
Sarah-Lee | Feb 04, 2010