Upside of Anger, The (2005) IMDB rating: 7.10 Plot: A sharp-witted suburban wife, Terry Wolfmeyer, is left to raise her four headstrong daughters when her husband unexpectedly disappears. Things get even more hectic when she falls for her neighbor Denny, a once-great baseball star turned radio d.j. This leaves her daughters out on a limb. They are forced to juggle their mom’s romantic dilemmas as well as their own.

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Do you think there's a reason for everything?
well kind of a bad thing happened in my childhood and i’m wondering what the reason of this happened.
Heres the story:

I had a sleep over with my closest friends. we played video games backyard football went into the pool. boy stuff and i had an awesome day. The next morning my friends were still there and my mom was all dressed up and she was going to this bon jovi concert and she’ll be gone all day. so that was cool and i realized that i have another party to go to and i’m going with my friends that just slept over (kinda small lil’ neighborhood) so it was an exciting couple of days. So we go to the party wit me my two bros and my dad. Do pool party crap..blah blah..blah and i pull out a juicebox and relize my dads talking to my neighbor the whole party thought nothing of it. Finally the party ends everyones tired especially me. go right to my house slip of my shoes and just go to bed. realizing my mom was still at the concert. So everyone passes out in like 20 minutes. But i woke up at like 3:00am with my mom screaming crying and i could resite every word "WHAT THE F*** IS THIS WHAT’S YOUR PROBLEM YOUR MY BEST FRIEND AND YOU GO AND DO THIS WHAT THE **** WHAT IS THIS I WAS GONE ALL F***ING DAY AND YOU DO THIS. LEAVE MY HOUSE. i was like 8 or 9 at the time. and i didn’t know what was going on. until she went into further detail. She called up my aunt and she said my dad was cheating on her other stuff. And i sat in my bed crying. when everything good went upside down. Everyone had a great time until this. i couldn’t do anything i didn’t want to i was shocked with depression. we had to move from my neighborhood cause my neighbor lived across the street. And my dad had to move out for a month then came back they fight say things will get better fight again and then he went to a acholism thing for like a month and a half. and they have fought so far the cops came to my house. to the point when i would break down and cry. when this 12 year old. football player tough comical guy broke down into tears. they pushed me so far i’ve even cut my wrist (never thought of sucide) and have been depressed for a whole year. i’ve gotten better but when people push me and they complain about their small problems i just can’t control my self with anger and all these feelings that blow out of me. i probably do need therapy i bottle up my feelings but i want to know why this had to happen my life was practically perfect until one day.

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Trust me. It will get better. Ok, to make my point, this is pretty much what’s up with me. First, my mom died when I was a kid, then 4 other family members died in a 3 year period, then I got bitten by a dog and received 22 stitches (accident), then I thought everything was ok for about a year until my 2 childhood dogs died on me (I know, they are just pets, but Im a huge animal lover so it hurt!). Then, right when I enter college, I think that everything is going well, until two days before I start the semester i break my foot. Yes, I have to wear a cast, no problem, but still troublesome. After that, my laptop breaks down and I have to spend around $150 getting it fixed. About three weeks after that (mind you this is all within a four month period once I started college) my only car’s engine blew. After that… (geez glad 2009 is over) I tried to turn a corner, lost control and the car my sister loaned me to finish school and fell 200 ft. Now, I had to stop school because I don’t have any transport and move back home. But, I am extremely optimistic and know that everything does happen for a reason. Even though I have gone through all of this, I know that because one thing happens, another event occurs and changes your life in a different way. Remember: What does not kill you makes you stronger! I hope this helps! And yeah, if you feel like it I would suggest going and talking to a therapist, it does help. Also, if you ever want to talk, just email or IM.

Female Dr. Manhatten | Jan 07, 2010

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Woah thats a lot to read! So I’m not gonna!
Ronald McDonald IV | Jan 07, 2010

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counseling hun
puppy | Jan 07, 2010

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I do believe everything happens for a reason. It may not be clear why this has affected you the way it has but then again you may never know why. You will need to learn to accept that in your own way. I would recommend that you see a psychiatrist that’s goal is to help you over come this portion of your life. I will pray for you and am sorry you have gone through all this and never got any help coping with the divorce. Good luck!
waltdawg3@sbcglobal.net | Jan 07, 2010

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First of all it was not your fault, or your mothers what your father, and next door neighbor did, they are adults and they took it to far and cross the line. Being that said they are paying the consequence for there actions, and so is the family, but its up to you to come thought this without being scared for life. This is a new year and you must move on, and leave the past behind you, do not carry the sins of your father like a cross it is not yours to bare. For example my father was an alcoholic and i hated my childhood, so i made sure that i would never drink or smoke and when i would have my own children i would not make there life a living hell like mind. I have 3 wonderful sons and they love me to death, and always tell me what a great mom i am, you must think of your future and how you want your life to be, so make the right chooses when you pick a bride so you won’t go through the same thing as your parents and swear to yourself that you will not do the same mistakes your parents did, and you will be a better person for it.
Ms Pollyanna | Jan 07, 2010

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all because of lust for sex, your dad was probably drunk. but do not let this affect your life anymore.
lots of things are going to happen in your life.
trust in the Lord Jesus, get to a biblical church, you’ll be happier.
Marilyn | Jan 07, 2010

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If we can learn from our parents mistakes we become a better person. We learn what happens when people drink booze and have affairs. It hurts so many people and it is not necessary.

It teaches us lessons about selfishness. Sometimes other people problems seem to be less important but they don’t know what problem you have experienced. Someone was mean to them or hurt them in some way and one of the lessons we can learn is to be more tolerant and understanding. It’s what we want from other people right?

We want other people to be understanding of our problem. But we bottle our problems up. This is another very important lesson. Eventually our feelings need to come out. It’s better to let them out a bit at a time. We also learn that we don’t want to hurt other people because we know what it feels like.

We need to learn to talk about our problems, before they become so big we can’t deal with them.
Bill C | Jan 07, 2010

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Crappy things happen to everyone at some point in their lives. You do need some counseling; it will help you get through this and help you stop cutting. Even though it may not seem like it now, things will turn around and get better. They always do!
Best of luck to you.
Shayla | Jan 07, 2010